16 & 17 Aug, Belfast, Northern Ireland
On Monday, 16 Aug I flew the infamous RyanAir from London Stansted airport to Belfast. It went, unexpectedly, without incident. The flight to Ireland was shorter than my tube ride home from the pub the night before.
My friend Richard Treacy, who’s visited Greenwich, CT many times, picked me up from the city airport with his usual big smile and enthusiastic interest in my travels. We had a lovely chat on the way to his house in Hillsborough where I tucked in for the rest of the day. He prepared a delightful veggie chili dish and with his wonderful wife Lisa offered their trademark insight into life.
After dinner a good friend of Lisa’s called Andrea popped round for a chat. Turns out she’s a triathlete, founder of local bike shop sponsored women’s cycling team the BikeDock Belles and madly preparing for the Terrex Adventure Race next week (aka 4 days of non-stop kayaking, mountain biking and trail running.) I could only beam with awe.
That's a tiny Richard behind the yellow sign
What an incredibly wonderful day of fellowship for my first day in Northern Ireland! With Richard and Lisa you’re always guaranteed fabulous discussion on topics ranging from very specific personal challenges of the moment to broad sweeping global affairs. I fell asleep mentally exhausted and happy at, for once, a reasonable hour, and slept like a log.
The next morning we headed into the Belfast city center. With a meeting cancelled, Richard was able to give me a grand tour. It’s always slightly unsettling to begin to explore a place you’ve heard so much about, especially one known for violence, or The Troubles, as they’re called; 30 years of killing and strife between Irish Catholics and British Protestants.
(I'm sorry I haven't got more pictures here. It just wasn't appropriate to take photos as many of the places I visited.)
I needed more of an onramp, so it was only after a little more talk about our personal lives over Starbucks coffee that we headed off to pick up a friend, Don, the hospital chaplain to explore. Together Richard and Don brought Belfast alive to me, from the very worst to the very best of it all, then and now. I kept thinking how very unworthy I was of their time and careful explanations. Still, they took me from the Irish Cultural Center to Shankill Road and everything in between, somehow making the clash between the Republicans and Unionists clearer and very real.
I hadn’t realized that there were still Peace Lines zig zagging across the city. It felt just like Berlin when it was divided, with high walls and auto locking gates. At one point there was a cycle path running just next to a separated neighborhood, and it struck me as utterly ridiculous.
Don took us into the desolate housing developments most central to the violence during The Troubles, and we were able to get out and wander freely because of his familiarity with the residents. We even got let into a locked graveyard and had a look around at the eclectic gravesites. It was a mini history of Belfast dating back hundreds of years. Don used to have a charity shop just on the other side of one of the graveyard walls. He had also led a small church down the road, so this neighborhood was his parish. He now leased the property next to the shop where a Turkish barber practices his trade. Don is an incredibly gentle and welcoming person, with an ability to make you feel important and valid.
Don in front of the hospital
It should be said that both Don and Richard have dedicated much of their lives to active reconciliation, but in more hidden and unique ways than we might hear of in the US news. They have invested in individuals, one by one, and are making more difference than they’ll ever know. Life in a post conflict environment is always delicate and their gentle, genuine ways are undoubtedly a healing salve. But I had no idea how many more Richard and Dons I would encounter in the next few days.
After lunch we stopped by the BikeDock shop and I was completely floored at how great a cycle shop it was. They had BY FAR the most comprehensive collection of commuter bikes I had ever seen in one location. Since the desire to open a commuter cycle shop has occupied my fantasies on more than one occasion over the last year, I was in absolute heaven. I was ready to drop anchor and live in the corner of this open plan industrial space. Gosh, I’m nearly in a state of euphoria just thinking about it now. Something about understated, creatively stimulating spaces mixed with beautiful adventure toys that pushes all the right buttons for me. I am far too influences by my environment.
Anyway, escaping with just my life, Richard drove me southward to a village on the coast called Rostrevor, my home for the next several days. The Irish countryside lived up to it’s emerald beauty as did the weather, shifting from pouring rain to bright sunshine no fewer than a dozen times in the course of our hour journey.
Richard was familiar with our destination from events attended while it was the Christian Retreat Center. It’s an eclectically expanded mansion on the gorgeous seafront. As Richard and I said our goodbyes, I felt the familiar peace of being handed over to a conference organizer.